I have always enjoyed lists, whether I am making them myself or reading the list others create and post. I came across a web site recently that has nothing but lists of questions to answer - Nirvana! http://heckyeahtumblrchallenges.tumblr.com/newdirectory
I think most of them are geared to the, getting to know you category. I spent several
I think I am going to use August, a personal favourite month, to set myself 31 questions to answer; one a day. Although the list has only 30 questions and August has 31 days, I will create and throw in a joker question of my own. This is the list I am going to use:
So being that this is August 1st, here's question one answered:
1) Introduce yourself:
My birth was registered exactly two weeks after my actual
birth. Some parts of this story are
family lore & cannot be confirmed with the original players, some parts I
know are fact as I was part of the story’s events. Two weeks after the birth is the longest it took my parents to register any of their children. I am one of 12 of my parents children. (Much more about this on other days). I was baptized within the church at
the age of 2 ½ years of age along side of my 2 month old brother. Other than myself, all of the children were baptized as newborn infants. My baptismal papers said my name was Mary-Lou. Had I been born a boy, I was told I would have
been called Mark.
I had never seen a copy of my birth certificate but the year I was researching family history, I requested to see my first official government card. I was shocked; no this cannot be, there must be a mistake. My Mother was laughing as she saw my shock & bewilderment. Turns out I was registered with a different name other than what was on my church & school registration papers. My Mother claimed that she originally knew nothing of these three names until after the official registration & that's why she had never shown me my birth certificate before. I promptly called my father, who claimed it was with my Mother’s doing. Both of them had connection to all three of these names, so both could have been responsible. I was also the only child to receive three names. Being young & emotional, I questioned who was I really, what other lies could there be? I took the matter into my own hands, I visited the birth & deaths office, confirmed the signature on the registered forms; as I thought, my father's. Within my family this story is laughable. It is still not a joke to me but I have certainly soften towards the tale as I now know I am not the name of my birth certificate. I taken the third name & incorporated into my (published) writing name, so I guess the tale ends with the thought … a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.
I had never seen a copy of my birth certificate but the year I was researching family history, I requested to see my first official government card. I was shocked; no this cannot be, there must be a mistake. My Mother was laughing as she saw my shock & bewilderment. Turns out I was registered with a different name other than what was on my church & school registration papers. My Mother claimed that she originally knew nothing of these three names until after the official registration & that's why she had never shown me my birth certificate before. I promptly called my father, who claimed it was with my Mother’s doing. Both of them had connection to all three of these names, so both could have been responsible. I was also the only child to receive three names. Being young & emotional, I questioned who was I really, what other lies could there be? I took the matter into my own hands, I visited the birth & deaths office, confirmed the signature on the registered forms; as I thought, my father's. Within my family this story is laughable. It is still not a joke to me but I have certainly soften towards the tale as I now know I am not the name of my birth certificate. I taken the third name & incorporated into my (published) writing name, so I guess the tale ends with the thought … a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.
Firstly, great idea! Already looking forward to working through this list each day.
ReplyDeleteWhat a perplexing story though. I can't imagine suddenly discovering my birth certificate had some other name on it. Perplexed as to some of the details but agree to the conclusion: it's still you, whatever you choose to be called!
AND great second photo - did you make this arrangement yourself?
Oops the note about photos are from the Internet - now added.
DeleteI did grow up in a crazy and chaotic family with less than sane parents.
Gosh..that's quite a story. I'm not sure how I would have reacted..I know my Grandma discovered she wasn't "Ellen" on her birth certificate as she thought, but "Nellie", which is what everyone called her anyway
ReplyDeleteThanks. I have discovered that my naming situation isn't that unusual as I had originally thought, thanks for sharing your Grandma's story. I often wonder what I would have called myself.
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