Wisdom

 

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You cannot get mad at people around you sucking the life out of you, if you keep handing them a straw.

                    ... Grown Up Dish

Me On A Monday - September 26th

 

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Currently - Heroes: this week two of my heroes are Hilary Fordwich & Daisy Cousens.  I like for different reasons ... Ladies, thank you for talking sense.

Currently - Reading: I've gone through several books of late, none that make me want to stand up & shout "you must read this".  I've read: Your Pelvic Floor Health, Should I Stay A Christain (this for an online workshop); more of the Doctor Ruth Galloway series; Lessons in Chemistry ( liked this one); 

Currently - Shedding: I use to tape & watch after work a Canadian women's talk show.  After countless moments of being annoyed beyond comfort, I've decided that my power was in the ability to stop recording, stop watching, stop reading their Insta posts ... I've shed what seems like too much time invested in being outraged (which by the way I think is their aim). I must say the calm is SO empowering.  

Currently - Baffled: by my own SPSH list.  This Friday the 30th is the final check in.  I think I'm going to be shedding scavenger searches.

Currently - Evaluating: my plant successes for 2022.  I did not do as many annual pots as I have in years before.  The cost of annuals this year was rather daunting to my planting wants ...

Extra White Impatients

There were two rain barrels like this

My Favourites 2022

There were some epic failures too. There were two pots of New Guinea impatiens.  Both died off late July - they were fine until one afternoon they both just collapsed. 

 

The white & pink impatiens I purchased from Costco.  The other plants that I bought from the nursery were utter failures.  I was very disappointed in this year's blue & white lobelia in the water pump barrel - the entire planting died off in July. The same planting the year before was fantastic.  That's gardening!  I try not to take it personally.

Wisdom

 

You cannot see your reflection in boiling water.  

Similarly you cannot see the truth in a state of anger.

When the  waters calm, the clarity comes.

 

Me On A Monday - But It Is A Tuesday September 20th

 

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Good Morning.  I hope all is well in your corner of the world. What an emotional day yesterday - beautifully done, Her Majesty would have been proud.

Over the last few weeks, I've read on a number of blogs, people are feeling that September, or Autumn, is a time of change in their personal lives ... a new year of sorts.  

This week I listened to this uTube video from Joshua Becker:  Change Your Life.  It is a similar message from a post I wrote several weeks ago ... nothing changes if nothing changes or as Joshua says, Change Your Life To Change Your Life.   

When I announced one morning at breakfast to Mr Man, the statement of nothing changes if nothing changes, it opened up several larger & ongoing conversations.  At first Mr Man did not understand, but after talking about it, I think, I hope, Mr Man now "gets it".  

For me, September has always been the start of something new. Usually it was school either as a student or as an instructor,  but mostly September has & continues to trigger other changes or new starts, and in some cases a returning to.  I feel that vibe of a new year.  Several companies I have worked with have had their new financial years begin in September.  

This September I've got not only that vibe of new, but a vibe of not fitting into my life, much the way we feel after a holiday of indulges, when we don't fit into those favourite jeans afterwards.  To get back to that fit, we have to shed a few pounds. That's how I feel in the middle of September 2022, I need to shed a few things.  

On my blog & on others, we have talked about shedding or dealing with those life annoyances that crop up, the silent (nagging) to do lists.  Normally I love lists, but when I see my list of life annoyances and/or silent to dos creeping in more & more, I know, I feel it is time for a change.  Nothing changes, if nothing changes.

I've got my big flip chart out where I am making a list of things to keep or things to shed, new habits that need developing or revisiting, lists of I would like to, lists of I am tired of this ... the pros & the cons.  I am sure that there are even nations going through this type of evaluation right now, but that's a topic for another day.

Are you going through any shifts, feelings or mindset changes this September?  Any tips or wisdom to share?

So now my big decision is, scented markers or regular but I'll leave you with this thought ... life has no remote, if you want to change the channel, you will have to get up & do it yourself.  

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Me On A Monday - September 19th

 

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 Today I am, via television coverage, attending the funeral of our Queen.  I'll be back tomorrow with a regular type of blog post.

 

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I've read that the Royal Canadian Mounted Police will lead The Queen’s funeral procession in London on Monday.  Queen Elizabeth as our Queen, was also the Commissioner-in-Chief of the RCMP.

 

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Wisdom

 

Diamonds are created under immense pressure.

Bread dough rises when you let it rest.

The same boiling water will soften the potato but harden the egg.

Just remember what may motive you, may be the element that crushes someone else. Be kind.

Me On A Monday - September 12th

Good Morning.  For me, it has been a very emotional weekend watching coverage of The Queen's death & all the protocols for the change to King Charles III.  

For me, one of the emotional moments was watching as The Queen's coffin was moved into The Palace of Holyroodhouse & The Princess Royal's deep curtesy.  So much of that said, reverence, duty, respect, & love.  I cannot imagine having to deal with a public display of protocols & legal requirements while trying to mourn the passing of a much loved Mother, Grandmother & Great Grandmother.

I was most pleasantly surprised by the number of my friends that checked in with me, knowing what a Royalist I am.  The Monarchy & Coronation Street are/were two things I was raised with. Not a republican amongst us. 

For the last two weeks we were working at home tending to our ensuite bathroom reno which finally started with the removal of an old shower stall & the building of a tiled shower stall.  Thankfully we have another full bathroom so no one went unwashed for 2 weeks.

I had picked a tile over a year ago when the project was suppose to begin, but when this contractor, not the original one, went to get the tile, he was told "out of stock, no delivery date"  so I had to rush out & pick another one rather quickly so as not to delay the progress being made.  When I went into the ceramic tile store, I said show me only those that are in stock; white background with some grey in it. Saved time walking through aisles of tiles that weren't going to be appropriate but still there were so many choices.  I think if the contractor had shown up with this 2nd picked tile neither Mr Man or myself would have known, it is so similar to the original.  I am very happy with the choice.

A little hiccup in getting a shower stall door - I absolutely did not want a clear one, which apparently is all the rage! But in the end, the contractor found a frosted door.  

The next hiccup or curse as Mr Man puts it, was the flooring, we had a one piece of vinyl flooring but this contractor did not know how to install & the company we bought it from didn't have any sub-contractors that could either.  Original contractor was an expert in this type of flooring that's why we went with it. So on Friday we picked a new type & style of flooring.  It will be 2 weeks before that gets delivered & installed.  The cats have been very stressed by a stranger in the house & one that made a lot of noise.

Mr Man was the first to have a shower in the new tiled shower stall on the weekend - it was his birthday after all.  

I'll see you Wednesday for some Wisdom.